Being helpful can increase your confidence in things and raises . your self-esteem.
Being funny can make you more calm and open with people since you're making them laugh.
Being courageous can increase your self-esteem because your doing something for somebody or yourself. These are the three values to be happy
Hope this helped! :D
P.S. You are right! We shouldn't judge others! It's unfair that people just say you're a bad person because you're wearing fingerless gloves or a crazy hairstyle. I love people for who they are! :D